I think folks should remember the real meaning of this holiday and what they do have as opposed to what they don't. If you have Family thats the bomb. Whether they love or judge you,you have them. You have a roof over your head,for the most part warm and with your own bathroom facilities. I was homeless for more then one Christmas and let me tell me ya it was no fun at all. My husband,Mark,was still alive<til aug 91> so sometimes we would end up at his Mom's to be able to take a shower,wash our same clothes,eat something besides soup and salad they give ya at the soup kitchen and a warm place to sleep for a couple nites. Then Mark was gone and his Mom was gone a few years after that. Thank goodness by then I had my housing<took7 years of waiting> came up and I was able to move into a one bedroom place for about 5 years and I've been here about 6 years. It's hard finding a place especially when you have 2 grown female cats,both inside babies...At any rate. Lately I have lost family,but I have also had lost family find Us,which is really awesome in its own right...

So be Thankful for what ya got cuz there is someone on the corner with a basket who would love to switch places with you......

I hope I have cheered ya up and not made folks sad...
Rokki